"Macam nak kena ketuk ah kepala si dekni"
"Dah semua nak kena tukar!"
And the feeling of dissatisfaction keeps on going, saying unwise comments and thinking that the conveyor of the above is right while such comments are intended to the other person believed to be making huge mistakes.
What's the conclusion of this disagreement?
It happens that the conveyor is wrong from the start. What is thought to be right, is the conveyor's own fault, overlooking the actual procedures and lacking observation. In the end, he/she is ashamed because of his/her own blunder. And the team has to redo the whole process.
What can we learn from this?
As Muslims, we should know that talk is very dangerous. We should control it within the limits of Islam. From the example above, the person criticise others without reflecting one's self. And that is why, the saying goes, "Practice what you preach".
Worse when it comes from any Muslim brother/sisters to our non-Muslim friends.
How would you feel to be in that situation?
Even if I'm not involved, I'll be shaken by the slight commotion. I fear to be influenced by any Gheebah (backbiting) or Nameemah (spreading talk among people to make them hate one another).
Usually, people love to do things which are wrong. And when they feel the 'nikmat' of backbiting others, they don't realise that they are actually the masterminds of bad talks spreading around. We should not believe everything. It might just be a malicious hearsay. Play safe.
I really hope that Allah shelters me from any of these activities. The only thing I can do is to refrain from listening. To share with you my dear readers as a form of reminder to us.
They say, a tongue has no bones =)
