And so we had our do'a selamat / majlis kesyukuran for Iman, which was the initial plan (He had his tahneek @ the mosque. So no cukur rambut @ home). But since we bought the new house and it was spacious for the occasion, we decided to make it a housewarming event too for family members and close ones.
Iman was well-behaved that day. Me and hubb thought that he was paying his overdue sleeping time as he had only been sleeping half an hour or even 10 minutes for the past week. That really took up my personal time as mak and me had to 'layan' him as he loves to stand and be carried around the house. He slept for 4 hours and woke up, after which he was passed around and only cried during feeding time.
I hardly ate that day, only to realise I missed out on some of the yummy food and delicacies at night. Was just too busy entertaining guests and quenching my thirst most of the time.
Cake brought by Cik Midah
I miss Wawan! And not to forget, the newly-wed Didi just back from honeymoon
A few of us
When the March brothers collide.. huhuh..
Alhamdulillah it went well. Hopefully this house will be a place for us to fill it with Mahabbah and Rahmah and insyaAllah rumahtangga Da'wah...
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Tawazun Dalam Rumahtangga.
Berumahtangga juga bagi seorng daie adalah bertujuan untuk melaksanakan ubudiyah dan bukan untuk menghalangnya. Adalah disedari bahawa terdapat banyak ujian dan fitnah yang terdapat dalam rumahtanggga. Salah satu daripada ciri penting rumahtangga dakwah adalah keseimbangan atau tawazun.
Keseimbangan ini adalah :
a)Di antara kecintaan kepada isteri dan anak-anak dengan kecintaan kepada Allah dakwah dan jihad.
b)Diantara kecintaan kepada keselesaan hidup bersama keluarga dengan kesungguhan berdakwah di tengah tengah masyarakat yang sangat mencabar.
c)Diantara kecenderungan untuk memberikan kesenangan hidup keluarga dengan harta benda dengan tuntutan berbelanja ke jalan Allah SWT.
Para du’at perlu melalui dengan bersungguh-sungguh untuk menatijahkan keseimbangan ini kerana ramai para duat yang gugur di perjalanan dakwah kerana kegagalan mereka melahirkan keseimbangan ini dan kegagalan mereka mendidik isteri dan anak-anak untuk menerima serta melaksanakan keseimbangan ini.